Take the Abstinence Pledge

Help a charity get a donation from a stranger.

Here's how it works

We put your nickname and answers to our fun questions into a directory of abstainers. We then allow people to choose an abstainer from the directory, they make a charitable donation, and we send them an abstinence offset. For each certificate sold (where a certificate holder chooses you from our directory of abstainers) you pledge to abstain for a day (we're not saying from what). For each abstinence day of abstinence you get to choose which charity receives the donation (your "payment" for abstaining).

So, if you're ready to go answer some basic questions, we'll add part of the information to our directory, and we are off and running.

What We'll Show In the Directory

Please enter a nickname (or we'll make one up for you):
Gender?	Male Female
Please upload a picture:
Please tell the world why they should choose you to abstain on their behalf:
Fill in the blanks in the sentence:	"Abstinence can be because

Private Information, This will not be displayed on the website.

Please enter your name:
Please enter your email address: We won't ever sell it or give it away. We won't spam you. SpamGourmet for a temporary if you don't believe us.

The Fine Print

If you do not choose a charity within 30 days of being asked to do so, we'll choose one for you.

We will endeavor to keep your real identity a secret - Please use a nickname in the nickname field.

We will use your e-mail address to:

To acknowledge that your listing was received
Contact you to ask you to choose a charity when a certificate is sold.

FAQs

Will we check up on you to make sure you're abstaining?
Sorry to disappoint but it's honor system; No web cams needed.

Can I meet my donor/abstainee?
No. We're not a dating service

What if I want to drop out?
Just send us a note and we'll drop you from our list

Abstinence offsets.

Abstinence Offsets Let someone else abstain for you.